31 Reasons by My Readers

Ladies I have had so many messages and it’s great to see so many of you taking control of your relationships and coming back to me with the new found benefits.

Below are 31 reasons (benefits) in no particular order of why following an FLR/MLR, and LOCKING your man has got in the driving seat to a happier and more balanced life. I copied much of the comments sent to me and cut it down but the message is there.

I’ll probably add to them over time as the benefits keep rolling in.

* He has no choice but to be faithful to you while he is out. Many men won’t, but it’s nice to know when away for work or with family he won’t even look at other women.

* My confidence has soared and I am now the woman I use to be. Confident, glamorous and opinionated. Having this level of control allows me to extend it to work and personal life.

* He can no longer masturbate without your approval. I was amazed to find out that his masturbation habit was daily. No wonder he wouldn’t give me attention and be obedient.

* His tone toward you will become more respectful and appreciative of you. No answering back or being passive aggressive. Family and friends can tell who is the boss.

* He will no longer be subtly trying to seduce you with his daily conversation. Yes. He is doing this whether he knows it or not.

* He will become less obsessed with his penis as the embodiment of his sexuality. He will accept he has a small penis which eases lots of pressure of him. Locking his penis does that.

* He will start to associate other parts of his body and other activities with sex to the point that he will feel more comfortable when his penis isn’t on the menu. Sex does not have to equal penis. We use toys for my pleasure and penetration with his penis is for special moments. Many women said they adopted this and I do with my husband. Sex if about you and removing his penis from it makes him work harder. No blowjobs on small penises.

* Found time I thought don’t not exist. I can no find time for hobbies, pampering and friends. He sacrifices his for mine.

* His communication will increase significantly both in quantity and in honesty. Deeper conversations that were a thing of the past will not be back. My husband feels comfortable telling me things that he couldn’t before and would cause a lot of confusion and doubt for me.

* A more sexual side of me comes out when I feel a greater level of comfort. I love seeing him so turned on and trying hard to use his penis. He really does worship his mother in law.

* I enjoy seeing him nude, his cage brings a smile to my face nearly every time I see it. I can’t believe I did not do this sooner.

* The kids are happier with less arguing, power conflicts and seeing their parents in a loving relationship.

* The level of control is crazy. It took us back to the start of our relationship, romance, care and courtship.

* Knowing that he has allowed you control over his most valued possession is a huge turn-on. Being in our 20s I never thought he would accept it but it seems like he understands what it brings.

* He no longer feels ashamed at his masturbation habits since they are now greatly reduced. He heels more open and honest. He would always be masturbating.

* He will have more sexual energy for you. This needs an outlet and more often than not this turns into massages and the gentle caresses that you’ve been asking for all along. You won’t ask for this, it will simply happen.

* His attention to detail on tasks that I ask him to do is significantly improved. He doesn’t want to disappoint me.

* He will help out around the house more. He will probably even volunteer to do chores (imagine that).

* He will start to ask about what you want.

* Sex stops being about him and his needs and becomes about you and your needs.

* Easy to get his attention regardless of what he is doing. If I say the word “attention”, he immediately shifts his attention from what he is doing to me.

* Having him locked before making big family decisions makes him accept everything. Selling the house and moving closer to my family was a big no. When locked he submitted to the idea immediately.

* He is not dependant on his own mother and now looks to me for approval. This was frustrating but now is no longer a thing. Many men have had issue from childhood especially coming from single parent households.

* Overall sex life will improve significantly. My needs are finally taken care of and it does not involve blow jobs or penetration. I can be open that he is not enough and he loves it.

* Relationship and bond between the two of you will increase greatly. The overall family sees benefits.

* He will have much more energy since so much of his energy is now built up with no place to go.

* He will become smarter. No, seriously. He will. A massive increase of dopamine will decrease prolactin and will lead to increased brain function. He can start a new business venture.

* If I set his cage out on his night stand, he knows that he is to lock himself up and bring the key to me. He knows throughout our normal day to day the topic of cage and penis must not be spoken about.

* He will do better at work due to improved brain function and increased energy. This improves finances.

* Money arguments have evaporated. I have the money and I provide it. This is one me and my husband adopt. Being in banking, I always had the bigger pay check. His money still comes to my account.

* You will find that this very quickly goes from a punishment/reward system to approval and affection seeking.

* What better way to demonstrate devotion?

From previous blogs, I do have a lot of messages about locking husbands in. Ladies, the above majority all came from women of different backgrounds locking their husbands and learning to love it.