The ‘Worship the Mother-In-Law State”

As a woman who's navigated the many difficulties of marriage, I often encounter queries from other women eager to embrace a more dominant role in their relationships, particularly in what I term a wife-led dynamic. If you're considering this i applause you and highly recommend visiting my other blog after you read all the below first. Here you will learn the path to follow to get started.

However, understanding the 'why' behind this decision is crucial for every woman. It's about a concept I playfully call 'worship the mother-in-law’ state and yes, this comes to life once you start a wife-led marriage set the rules, open and share, keep it consistent and have a close eye on your husbands masturbation patterns. It’s about keeping it controlled and locked!

Now you may be thinking, why bring the mother-in-law (your mother) into the discussion of a wife-led marriage?

Well, the involvement of in-laws, especially the wife’s mother, is a frequent stumbling block in many marriages. We've all experienced it: clashing opinions, or the influence of strong-willed family members (mother v husband). In fact, it’s said many marriages fail due to money, cheats and that’s right, in-laws.

"Worship the mother-in-law" implies that once a husband is properly trained, he will naturally develop a deeper respect and obedience not just towards his wife, but also towards his mother-in-law. That’s right, this metaphor suggests that a well-trained husband will not only listen to, cherish, and obey his wife, but also extend this attitude to her mother. It's about the husband aligning his behavior and respect in a way that includes both his wife and her mother, understanding and respecting the mother-in-law as an important figure in their life.

The 'worship the mother-in-law’ means once your husband has been trained well and put on the right path, he will not only listen, cherish and obey you. He will willingly do this to our mothers. Do you really need to ask why again? Now, I hope you understand this is very much metaphorical in that your husband will basically fall in place and submit to you for everything. Even to the point of listening and respecting his mother in-law like never before.

The advantages of a wife-led relationship become evident in this context. In such a dynamic, where the wife takes the lead, husbands, who traditionally might struggle with complex relationships with their mother-in-laws, start to actively work on and improve these relationships. Under the guidance and influence of his wife, a husband may become more compliant and willing to admit mistakes, even if pointed out by his mother-in-law. This demonstrates the power of a relationship where a man’s penis is under key. Ladies, let that mother-in-law metaphor really sink in for a moment. Understand what you have available at your disposal.

I have a close bond with my mother, and from other blogs I have shared the role she had with my father. Not to repeat the whole thing, but she was clearly the boss in the house, but that’s not to say my father was weak. In fact, he was a very influential man at work and lead huge teams of people. However, when it came to home, family, career, financial decisions my mother would call all the shots. In current society we make men think they need to be the dominants ones at home and making all the decisions when in the past days of my mom and dad and their parents this was not the case.

Being so close to my mom and sharing “most” of how me and my husband work, she supports and enjoys the added benefits she receives. She now gets the final word it much more, and it’s nice when she gives me a smile after such a social encounter.

So apart from “worshiping the mother in law” metaphor actually making husbands worship their mother in law, it also means:

• No heated argument, no answering back, less ego, no power struggle

• Chores being divided based on the wives rules and more time for her to find time for herself

• Sexual satisfaction is for the wife first and then the husband, the wife can date, talk to other men, look through her husbands phone

• Big decisions that relate to family, social circles, finances, careers have the final word from the wife

What are your thoughts? Let me know with questions. I always receive emails from readers and would welcome communication.