What Kind of Man
What kind of man allows a woman to control his manhood, decide when he ejaculates? Why on earth would he subject himself to this sort of treatment? A “real man” would never let someone do this to him.
First off, many men feel enslaved to their penis and to their sex drive. This is especially the case for a man who feels he lacks sexualise experience and has a higher sex drive. Think of the recent celebrities that have been in the spotlight. Cosby, Louis C.K. etc etc. These men are very intelligent and made some very poor decisions based upon choices that were made merely to fulfill sexual desire.
In my opinion, a real man isn’t defined by his penis he is defined by his actions. A real man is a good husband, a good father, a good role model and care take of his family. Allowing someone to help guide him to positive behavior is simply accepting help in an area that by your very nature is weak. If he can allow his wife to guide him in this one area, the entire relationship will glow. He needs her strength after their lovemaking sessions to ensure that he stays true to his agreement with her. Although different and strange to some, there should be nothing humiliating and emasculating about this. The man is putting his wife and her wants first and allowing her a level of sexual enjoyment that other women would beg for.
I have many readers reaching out to me, hence have first hand research in understanding these type of men.
Below are the traits of a man who benefits by being in a wife-led relationship and guided in this manner:
High energy, motivation and sex drive
Large disparity between the sex drive of he and his significant other (wife)
Works in an environment where he is skilled, in charge, admired or has sway within his organization
Has a small penis (under 5 inch)
Works in an environment with lots of interaction with females
Has limited sexual experience
Here are a couple profiles of specific guys that I know who have really thrived with a bit of shall we say “cage guidance” or “cage assistive therapy”. Many guys might fall into more than one, my husband is under the boss and the worrier.
The Boss
The boss is in charge of a large group of employees at work, is very skilled in an area, is admired by many, feared by some and has no trouble asserting himself at work. He has power and influence at work and may come home thinking that he can be the boss at home. Controlling his organisms by locking his penis will help him remain balanced at home and help keep the dynamics of home and work separate. Perhaps it stems from the fact that he acknowledges that his wife/girlfriend isn’t an employee that he can order around and must submit to her whim to experience sex with her. His desire may be a reminder to his subconscious that she holds the sexual power in the relationship. Maybe it has something to do with temptation in the workplace, guys with high workplace status tend to be seen as attractive by women.
If they are turning down advances of coworkers, maybe their pursuit of control and chastity is an admission of their fear of giving in to temptation in the workplace. Perhaps this is an expression of his helplessness in initiating sexual activity. Most of these guys do indicate that they have a much higher sex drive than their other half. This is a way to cope with that disparity in sex drive without feeling inadequate or perhaps it is a way for them to deal with feelings of inadequacy in this part of their life despite feeling adequate in every other capacity. Maybe this is a way for him to solidify her role in the relationship as if to create a formal means to promote her to “Manager of Sex” in the relationship.
My own experience has told me that guys who have smaller penises and anything under 5 inches is small, tend to be more kinky while the guys with larger ding dongs tend to be more vanilla. This is fine, my husband is just below 5 inches and from many of my female readers, it’s clear that sexual kinks are a way of dealing with feelings of inadequacy or boosting self-worth/self image.
Middle Management
The middle management guy is a great candidate for this sort of assistive therapy. This will give him the drive at work and allow him to focus his efforts on moving up the corporate ladder. Taking the focus away from his penis will help to ensure that he doesn’t get distracted by flirting with co-workers, talking with past flings or getting himself into situations that might jeopardize his career.
The Worrier
The worrier is often a husband whose mind is preoccupied with distant future concerns, causing him to overlook the immediate opportunities before him. Caught in a storm of doubt and overthinking, he might find respite in a wife-led relationship, which can alleviate the burdens weighing on him. Embracing this dynamic, including the practice of male chastity, can help redirect his focus, freeing him from the confines of his own thoughts. This guidance into new experiences can be beneficial not just for him, but for the family as a whole, steering towards choices that are most fitting for their collective well-being.
The Musician-Artist
A guy who is on stage with respected skills that women find interesting is quite dangerous. If female attention is readily available then temptation can arise especially if he travels frequently.
The submissive Man
The submissive man is a guy who is more in touch with his feelings and more self aware of the way his masturbation habits are impacting his actions and desires in your relationship.
Underachievers
Sometimes the guy needs a bit of a boost to help motivate him. This little trick is the best thing to help the guy who sits on the couch and plays video games all day. Give this a go if you would like him to lose a few pounds, go to the gym or even get a job. You can be as straightforward as “If you lose 5lbs, you get a release”.
Here are a couple profiles of women who are great candidates for locking things down in their household.
Stay at Home Mom
The stay at home mom can feel bored at home, can feel powerless with her husband at work. She is taking care of the kids and does not want to lose her identity.
The Professional Woman
The professional woman is used to being in charge at work, she is capable of asserting herself and demands respect. She is used to getting her way and this helps her ensure that her household runs the way she expects it to.
What are your thoughts? Does your husband fall into the above? Let me know with questions. I always receive emails from readers and would welcome communication.